Your kids have probably heard about the shooting in Connecticut.  Let's help them get the right info and deal with the tragedy the right way.  Keep in mind the way you handle the situation has to be "age sensitive."

Here's some advice and options from child psychologists and other experts.

1.) Turn Off the News.

If you have CNN on all day, your kids might misunderstand and think the shooting is happening over and over again.  So make sure they understand it's OVER and that the "bad guy" is gone!

2.) Encourage Them to Ask Questions.  You don't need to give them every single detail, but make sure you're honest and open with them. 

3.) Put It in Perspective.  Make sure they know this isn't something that happens all the time. Young kids might need some reassurance that they're safe, and they don't have to worry when they go to school each day.

4.) Don't Tell Them That What They're Feeling Is Wrong.  A young kid might tell you they're happy because they didn't know anyone involved in the tragedy.  It's OK.  They're children and this is the way they're expressing their relief and understanding.  Just be supportive and say something like, "you're sad for the people who DID get hurt."

5.) Keep a Closer Eye on Kids Who Have Been Through Something Traumatic Before.  Just like with adults, a NEW traumatic event can bring back a lot of bad memories. But kids don't always show it the same way. 

(WeAreChildrens.org)